maybe also a way for a couples profile to signify they are new and learning and serious, so that they can find partners willing to lend them extra patience, and nobody wastes time feeling like they were duped if it doesn’t work out
A thought that just popped into my mind when I read that was gamification. Having a way for people to get badges on their profiles for having completed something like reading an article or…I dunno. But something that can show others that you are new or experienced.
I was going to suggest gameification and, somehow, experience levels? Somewhere to indicate if you are new to polyam or have been doing it for years